Hosting With Love (and a Little Honesty)

I hope summer is off to a beautiful start for you!

We’re in the middle of a joyful (and very full!) season of hosting family from Israel, and it’s been wonderful to spend quality time with our relatives. 

My husband’s nephew, his wife, and their two teenagers are visiting the U.S. for the first time — and let me tell you, the kids are so excited. We’re planning everything from go-karting to a beach day, and I can already feel the memories being made.

It’s especially meaningful to have them visit now, with everything happening back home. The trip is a welcome distraction for them — and a reminder for me of how much connection matters.

But let’s be honest: hosting is a lot of work.

I love doing it — the big breakfasts, Shabbat dinners, late-night chats, and everyone under one roof — but I’ve also learned something over the years.

💬 In Hebrew, we say, “A fish and a guest start to smell after a few days.” (A little harsh… but kind of true!)

So now, I do something that used to feel uncomfortable: I set boundaries before guests arrive.

💕 Hosting Tip: Set a Loving Limit Up Front 💕

When a friend recently asked if she could stay for a week, I said,  “I want us to stay friends — so I’d love to host you for the weekend.”

Years ago, I wouldn’t have said no. And every time I overextended myself, I ended up exhausted — or sick. I’ve learned that when I set a kind, clear limit, I enjoy our time together so much more.

Now, I give guests a warm welcome, a cozy space, and a full heart for a few wonderful days.

And when it’s time to say goodbye? We’ve all had the best of each other instead of the burned-out version.

I share this because I know many of you are also in a season of hosting, planning, and giving a lot to the people you love.

Remember: your well-being matters, too. And it’s absolutely possible to lead with love and protect your energy.

If your home could use a reset before (or after!) visitors arrive — or you’re juggling so much that even the idea of organizing feels like one more thing — I’d love to help.

👉 Send me an email (joyfulnest@gmail.com) or give me a call at 201-916-9236, and let’s discuss how to create a space that works for your home — not just for the guests who pass through it.

Wishing you connection, calm, and a few deep breaths just for you,